■ It’s not about what’s wrong with me. It’s about what’s right with me. I refuse to settle.
■ I promise to always remember what I want and do not want.
■ I will not date my exes…there is a reason they are an ex.
■ I will not date married men or anyone newly divorced…it takes time to heal and discover who you are post-divorce.
■ I will not date aggressive/abusive men. “Abuse and respect are diametric opposites: You do not respect someone whom you abuse, and you do not abuse someone whom you respect.” ~Lundy Bancroft
■ I will not date passive aggresive men…if they do not value their own feelings enough to talk about them, I cannot be bothered to guess what they are upset about.
■ I will not date whiny, clingy men. I do not want someone who loses their identity in a relationship.
■ I will not engage myself in an argument with someone who believes they are always right. It is a waste of my time and energy.
■ I will not try to change someone. If I like someone for who I want them to be and not for who they really are then I do not like them…I like someone else.
■ A man must want to get to know ME and NOT my favorite sexual position.
■ Habitual texters are out…pick up the phone and call.
■ I know there are good men out there. I will not judge every man based on my bad experiences…let their own actions speak for them.
■ I will take something positive from every bad dating experience…learn from it and build something better because of it.
■ I will always believe in myself and never forget I am worthy.